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I read this article and I started to get “hot”. My house is set at 73 degrees and I was becoming drenched. I’m not an advocate of “Vigilante Justice” BUT if this happened to one of my younger family members I’m not sure what I would do, but definitely some shit would happen… Right away, No delay.
The Million Dollar Question: Can Ex’s Be Friends?
I have asked and answered this question may times over to myself (I guess that means I’m crazy since I answer the questions I ask myself…but we all knew that). I have answered that question with compelling arguements for both sides. I have even asked a few of my friends and co-workers their opinion on the matter. Some say yes, some say no, some have a hard time coming up with an answer and a reason why they chose that answer. Here are MY answers to the question (Both for yes and no):
YES: Depending on how long a relationship was, it is a bit difficult to throw away a friendship that has been built over the months / years. Yes because (depending on how long the relationship was) you feel a connection to that person. Yes esp. if you have mutual friends then it creates an akward situation when all persons happen to be at the same place at the same time. These are just a few reasons, I could go on forever.
NO: No one wants to picture their ex with another person, this becomes more akward if friendship continues. No because it makes it harder to “get over” a person when you still have contact with them frequently. No because (in my case) if you stay friends and continuously hang out, the chances are that much higher that lingering feelings will catch up. No because people change, and the person that you were with may have changed into someone you dont know, and there is no point in being friends with a stranger, and it is pointless to be friends just for the sake of friendship. Again these are just a few of the reasons.
After much thought, it is with a heavy heart that have come to the conclusion that NO, ex’s can’t be friends, its just too hard to have someone you still have feelings for (assuming you do) so close yet so far away. I am not sure if I am using myself as the example here, but many of the pervious statements reflect me, many but not all. Being civil to each other depends on how mature you are.
Green Tea & Lizzards… I Almost Died!!!
So basically anyone who knows me knows I dont like lizards…I am not afraid of them, I just don’t like them. This hatred is the reason I am not insured with Geico Insurance. That damn Gecko Lizard looking shit is just not supposed to talk. There is a SOBE commercial where they have the ugliest lizards I have ever seen dancing to Michael Jackson’s Thriller…That commercial I dont watch either. Again I am convinced that I just dont like them…I am definately not afraid. I make a joke and say if someone tries to rob me with a gun or a knife, I will try to defend my self, but come at me with a lizard, I will start giving them my shit…I will even volunteer info, I’ll tell them where I live, tell them the pin number to my debit card(s), give them the car keys, my bike keys, shit I will even give them my girl, ok maybe not…yeah they would get the girl. So every morning when I get to work, I have a Quaker Oatmeal thing, and after that I drink a green tea. So I went into the lunch room to make my tea and thats when I almost died from a lizard related heart attack. So we all know I’m blind in my left eye…I was standing and the box of tea was in another box on the floor on my left side. I was having a discussion with my manager who was also in the lunch room, and at the same time I bent donw to get a tea bag…and then something entered my peripheral…it was a rass ugly black lizard that looked the devil or death himself…it had to be atleast 13 inches long (ok it was maybe like 2 inches…maybe 3)…Man without bending my knees (and i have no idea how i did this) i jumped over (more like launched over) the chair that was behind me, bounced off the counter top, while screaming…I mean manly shouthing something that sounded like MOOMMMMMMMYYYYYYY…. I broke a cabinate door, ran out of the room, and i swaer my heart rate was at about a 250 BPM… I was shocked freaked out and all that shit…Needless to say I dont look at green tea the same way again… Death to all friggin lizards….FAAKKK I just had a flash back…I going to go hug-up my mommy…
